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I am because you are…

In a real sense, all life is interrelated. All [people] are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly affects all indirectly. I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be, and you can never be what you ought[…]

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Publisert i LivsstilMerket Buone Feste Natalizie, Buorrit Juovllat, Cestit Bozic i Sretna Nova godina joulua, Chuc Mung Giang Sinh, Feliz Navidad, Fröhliche Weihnachten, Gledelig jul, Idah Saidan Wa Sanah Jadidah, Jutdlime pivdluarit ukiortame pivdluaritlo, Jwaye Nowel, Kala Christouyenna, Karácsonyt, Maligayang Pasko, Martin Luther King, Merry Christmas, Noeliniz Ve Yeni Yiliniz Kutlu Olsun, Ojenyunyat Sungwiyadeson honungradon nagwutut. Ojenyunyat osrasay, Pozdrevlyayu s prazdnikom Rozhdestva is Novim Godom, Praznike Srecno Novo Leto, Prieci’gus Ziemsve’tkus un Laimi’gu Jauno Gadu, Rehus-Beal-Ledeats, Sarbatori vesele, Sawadee Pee Mai, Serî sallî nwê pîroz, Shinnen omedeto. Kurisumasu Omedeto, Shub Naya Baras, Subha nath thalak Vewa, Wesolych Swiat Bozego Narodzenia or Boze Narodzenie, Yelidet Beaal, Z Rizdvom Khrystovym

Hvordan kan jaget etter lykke påvirke oss negativt?

Som individer så går vi som oftest ut i fra at lykke er hva vi vil og ønsker til det ytterste uansett pris, at Lykken er selve målet for våre liv. Men ifølge Jacques Lacan, verdenskjent fransk psykoanalytiker, så er lykken intet annet en ett ‘svik mot våre begjær’ (Žižek, 2002). Svik mot våre begjær[…]

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Publisert i LivsstilMerket begjær, dagdrømmer, deprimert, fantasi, fantasier, fraværende, Hedonistisk tilpasning, jakt, liv, lykke, lykkelige, lykken, mål, objekt

Hedonic adaptation? Being happi-er is not to get used to being happy!

Do we really want or desire happiness? Do we really want or desire happiness? At first glance, this question seems contra-intuitive and meaningless to ask as we assume that happiness is what we want and desire the uttermost. According to Lacan, our fantasies have to be unrealistic. Because the moment, the second that you get[…]

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Publisert i Angst, LivsstilMerket adaptation, angst, be careful what you wish for, happiness, Hedonic adaptation, lacan, oslo, privat, psykolog, psykologen, the hunt is sweeter than the kill

To love or not to love, that is the question…

We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness and affection. Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow, a connection that[…]

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Publisert i LivsstilMerket affection, betrayal, blame, Brené Brown, connection, disrespect, love, self, shame, The Gifts of Imperfection, vulnerability

Woe to him who doesn’t know how to wear his mask, be he king or pope!

Remember who you are Remember who you are? One of our greatest fears is not to be accepted by others for who we are. Even greater is the fear to accept ourselves for ‘all that, that we truly are, both our worst and best parts equally’. How much truth can (or should) we carry on[…]

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Publisert i LivsstilMerket identity, L. Pirandello, psykolog oslo sentrum privat, Remember who you are, sosial angst

Interpersonal processes in psychoterapy

Psykolog Lurås attends on the 23rd of April 2013 the professional seminar ‘Interpersonal processes in psychotherapy’ held by leading scholars and practitioners in counseling psychology: prof. emeritus Adam Horvath (Simon Fraser University), prof. Terence Tracey (Arizona State University) prof. Bruce E. Wampold (University of Wisconsin—Madison).

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Publisert i LivsstilMerket counseling, psykolog

The great, pure and magnificent things that say no

I was thinking of all the great, pure and magnificent things that say no. Why should they say yes and tolerate our silly caresses? We trample, destroy and leave those who say yes, and after leaving them, we find that they made us feel wicked. Karen Blixen We trample, destroy and leave those who say[…]

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Publisert i LivsstilMerket barnepsykolog, Karen Blixen, kognitiv terapi, psykolog oslo, psykolog terapi

The shadow effect

It is only when we have the courage to face things in ourselves and our life exactly as they are, without any self-deception or illusion, that a ‘hope of light’ will develop out of events, by which the path to success may be recognised. – I Ching

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Publisert i LivsstilMerket I Ching, The shadow effect

Our Gloomy Sundays

Friedrich Nietzsche once said: “Everyone who has ever built anywhere a ‘new heaven’ first found the power thereto in his own hell.» Everyone who has ever built anywhere a ‘new heaven’ first found the power thereto in his own hell. Friedrich Nietzsche At life’s crossroads we ask ourselves who we have become? At life’s crossroads[…]

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Publisert i Livsstil, UkategorisertMerket ansje, darkness, depresjon, ensomhet, Friedrich Nietzsche, Gloomy Sunday, Gloomy Sunday by Sara McLachlan, hell, Italian, klinik psykolog, life, life’s crossroads, pain, paradise, psykolog oslo, Sara McLachlan

Our small daily solitudes…

Is it not true that many of us recognize this feeling of being life’s invisible passenger, looking at the existence flowing ‘outside’ instead of within? We feel that people around us are strangers, with undecipherable languages and anonymous behaviors. They brush by us as if we were invisible, dusty old walls, distant ruins. We are[…]

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Publisert i LivsstilMerket Charles Bukowski, darkness, Factotum, life, Life is made of small solitudes, loneliness, psychology, Roland Barthes, solitude, solitudes, sunlight